“Sometimes the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze.” This was spoken to me today by a friend who is considering a career change after more than thirteen years at the same place. How do you know when you should hold on tighter and when you should let go? I have had this conversation with at […]
The last should of them all … This is why … – The person you work with or your neighbor makes jokes, or is cynical about God. – The person you go to school with says they are an atheist. – Your husband, wife, brother or sister, aunt or uncle said “I’m out” and quit […]
Have you ever run out of gas in your car? You’re driving along – no problem and suddenly you’re about to be out of gas, or you are out of gas. Several years ago, I was driving my mobile office around Phoenix and I am not sure how it happened but at one moment the […]
We know it’s normal and perfectly acceptable to have a job description at work? But have you ever thought about how you have secret job descriptions for pretty much everyone you meet? We have things that we expect “others” to do for us. And they are usually completely unaware of these expectations! Here is the […]
Do you ever should on yourself? I do. I have shoulds that sit on my shoulder and constantly convene courtrooms in my mind. If I even think about saying “no” to someone who asks me to do something. I immediately put myself on trial and begin to present to myself evidence for all the reasons […]
Have you ever run out of gas in your car? You’re driving along – no problem and suddenly you’re about to be out of gas, or you are out of gas. Several years ago, I was driving my mobile office around Phoenix and I am not sure how it happened but at one moment the […]
We know it’s normal and perfectly acceptable to have a job description at work? But have you ever thought about how you have secret job descriptions for pretty much everyone you meet? We have things that we expect “others” to do for us. And they are usually completely unaware of these expectations! Here is the […]
Do you ever should on yourself? I do. I have shoulds that sit on my shoulder and constantly convene courtrooms in my mind. If I even think about saying “no” to someone who asks me to do something. I immediately put myself on trial and begin to present to myself evidence for all the reasons […]
After nearly a decade of wrestling with the shoulds, I have spent the last 6 months writing SHOULD HAPPENS. This is a human parable. If you’re like most people, you live in the ‘should’s. You are constantly chained by ideas of how your life should be, of what you should accomplish, of what you should […]
In part one of this article we realized there’s really no right or wrong way to eat a pancake. There is not one side that tastes better. Neither side of a pancake is more important. Both sides matter. Likewise, if one side gets burned it affects the taste of the other side. It’s the same […]
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